Author: Jojo Agot

My prayer is not to twist the arm of God so He would give me what I want. I'm praying for my will to be aligned to His will. It's my heart and arm that needs twisting.

I get into this thing with eyes wide open. I am aware of some things I don't like but I just feel like I really have to ask the question first. I will move on from there.

What you are before you are married is what you will be after you are married. Don’t marry your dream of what she could become. You don’t marry a dream. You marry a person.

[Steve Farrar]

To marry a woman for her beauty is like buying a house for its paint.

[Steve Farrar]

Find a woman who loves the Lord, loves life, and will love you. And when you find her, pursue her. Don’t be passive. Make the call. Take the first step. Nothing’s going to happen until you do. This is where John Wesley blew it three times. For some reason, he became passive when he found a great woman. That’s not the time to become passive. When you find a woman who loves the Lord and makes your heart beat faster, it’s time to be a man and get with the program. 

Steve Farrar, HOW TO RUIN YOUR LIFE BY 40

I’ve noticed a troubling trend among some young men these days. There’s a tendency among some Christian guys to gravitate toward immature, unthinking, weak women, who require little of them in terms of maturity.

Steve Farrar, How to Ruin Your Life by 40